November / Playlist

I've been listening to these tracks during autumn and thought I would make a quick late November playlist. Let me know of your favorites. On Spotify – listen here!

September Mix / Playlist

Hey everyone! I haven't done a playlist in a while, so here's what I'm feeling in September. Some of my favorites include Halsey's album (a must listen), the new City & Colour tracks, as well as the new CHVRCHES singles. Fall is always a good time for music. Hope you dig it! 

Listen on Spotify HERE!

The Valley & The Process

For me, writing and blogging has to be this "whole," completed thing. I have to have a lesson and have learned it and maybe after reading it, others can draw from it too. Because that's how it goes, right? I struggle, I tell you the story, and then tell you how God prevails, etc etc etc.

Well, I don't feel like that. I haven't felt like I have that. A "thing" to share with you all that the Lord has so triumphantly pulled me through. I feel like I'm not at a place to write what I've been learning. Because there's been so much. And I don't think I quite know what the lesson is just yet. Maybe there isn't even a lesson right now.

But I still feel the pull to write.

I get upset because I can't write. I get upset because I feel like I have nothing to write about. I get upset because I don't have a resolution. I get upset because I feel like my trials are insignificant. I get upset because I feel like no one cares, like no one can relate, like I am very little.

I notice everyone else's nice words to each other on social media. A long heartfelt post here, a lengthy thankful photo caption there. Your photos of you and your friends laughing. Your party you're at. You having the best time you've ever had.

I get angry. So silently angry at you. That your life looks better than mine. I harbor bitterness. Hey, didn't mine used to look good? Didn't I have everything sort of figured out? Wasn't I the one that people looked up to?

What have I done to not receive these things? Should I keep in better contact with my friends? Did I isolate myself? Should I have not chosen to work 8-5 all week? Should I have chosen an easier job, where I can watch netflix and still be considered on the clock?

Why does it seem like I'm the only one? Why do I care what people put on facebook and instagram and twitter and every other stupid social media site? Do I actually have qualities to offer that someone might notice and positively point out? Why do I feel like I need that?

Woah.
...Who am I?
Harboring bitterness? Those words have never, ever defined me. Lots of change has happened, but I didn't think I would feel "bitter." I hate even writing that word. I hate writing any of these words down at all. I hate the fact that I even let them cross my mind. I'd like to just keep them in my heart and let them simmer there. The last thing I'd want to do is write a blog post and proactively put it out there for people to read. (hah.) I'm afraid people don't want to know what going on with my heart because they won't be interested. Because my life is too irrelevant now.

I realize this is the enemy, literally filling my head with lies. Sometimes I like to believe them.

But this is good for me to do. To write this all out. To process.

I don't know what my resolution is. Only Jesus does. But all I know is, the encourager still needs to be encouraged. All I am really doing is trying–Trying to figure out what adult life is, what life is at all, what my place is right now. And that's wearing me down.

I'm glad for the valley. But the uphill trek feels exhausting.

This is my prayer–That Jesus would heal me and I would be whole, looking to Him for everything. For Him to reveal to me what makes me the person that I am. Why I'm special and why I am worth loving.

I know He will– He always does.
God is greater than my heart. He knows everything. (1 John 3:20)

I'm excited to see what's ahead. I'm excited to learn and to grow. Even if it takes hard steps along the way.

Mid May Mix / Playlist

Heeeeeeey! I seem to be starting most of my conversations like that now-a-days. Good news: new mix for your ears! Whether you're gettin' through finals, driving home, workin' that 9 to 5, or just having a good day, put on these tunes. A lot of these tracks are new releases from some of my favorite artists. Hope you enjoy. Listen to this on Spotify here!

Spring Rain / Playlist

A little rainy day spring playlist for April. You can find this on Spotify here.

Valentine's Mix / Playlist

I hope your February is going as swell as mine! This list has some more fun and upbeat indie pop tracks as well as some slow ballads here and there. My personal favorite tracks- Take The World by Johnnyswim and Electric Love By BØRNS. You can find it on spotify here!

Top 10 Albums / 2014

Here are my top 10 albums of 2014 (in no particular order. Because I really couldn't decide an order.) My music taste is a giant genre spectrum--I surprise myself sometimes.

Ledges | Noah Gundersen

This album is literally everything. Noah Gundersen is one of the most talented songwriters and without a doubt one of my favorite musicians. Every song on the album speaks to me and the lyrics are laced with emotion. I had heard many of these songs before they came out on a legit album as he played them for various videos on youtube and was so stoked to see them recorded and brought to an album. I got the pleasure of seeing him live this past March and he did not disappoint.

Favorite Songs:
First Defeat, Time Moves Quickly, Dying Now

Borderland | John Mark McMillan

The long awaited new McMillan album. It felt like we had waited for this for ages. I swear I was counting down the days until this album was released. John Mark is one of the most interesting artists and I love his creative mind. His ability to take worship music and mold it to be something completely unique is a true art form. I absolutely love the concept for the album, the 'borderland' and exploring what that is.

Favorite Songs:
Love At The End, Heart Runs, Future / Past, Counting On

Lost In The Dream | The War On Drugs

I see this on so many 'Top 2014 album' lists and there is no reason why it shouldn't be on everyone's list. Most of all, I love the sound of this album. I want to take this and listen to it on my next road trip. Red Eyes has been one of my most played track this year. If you haven't had a chance to stream this, add it to your queue right now.

Favorite Songs:
Red Eyes, Burning, Lost In The Dream

Struggle Pretty | Penny and Sparrow

Hands down my favorite album of 2014. No question. I discovered Penny and Sparrow this summer at a point which could almost be considered fate. I got the chance to see them in KC this summer and it was one of the best shows I've ever been to. They have grown to be one of my favorite bands. Their songs are about love, struggle, disappointment, honesty and so much more. Not to mention the sound is incredible. If you're looking for one new band, pleeeease check these guys out. They are fantastic.

Favorite Songs:
Serial Doubter, Bread and Bleeding, To Haunt To Startle, Thunder, Reeth

Sweet Disarray | Dan Croll

I was straight jamming to Dan Croll this past summer. I love this guy's sound so much. The whole album is great and it's extremely strong for a debut album. Every song could be great on it's own too; Dan Croll has almost reinvented the wheel for indie pop.

Favorite Songs:
From Nowhere, In / Out, Wanna Know










ZABA | Glass Animals

Freakin' Glass Animals. These guys are so weird, but sooo good. Their sound is so unique, I can see why so many people are fans of these guys. Their rich layers and use of percussion on each track make you feel like you should be in another world. I had 'Pools' on repeat daily this last semester. They have an essence of Alt-J but so much more poppy and dancey; almost intergalactic, if music can be described like that. #peanutbuttervibes

Favorite Songs:
Pools, Gooey, Psylla, Black Mambo

Rivers In The Wasteland | NEEDTOBREATHE

This album is so much. So many things. Everything. It's almost a resolution for the band and all they have been through. I've been a fan of Needtobreathe for years and this album is one of my favorites. I listened to this album and this album only for a good portion of 2014. The whole album track order is a story, but each individual song on it's own is fantastic. I got to see these guys back in April and it was their first live show playing the new album, most of which they told us they had never played for a crowd before. SO. GOOD.

Favorite Songs:
Rise Again, The Heart, Multiplied, More Heart Less Attack

Diamonds | Johnnyswim

Yeee! Johnnyswim just makes me happy. I discovered these guys through a photographer that I follow on Twitter and was sold when I heard 'Diamonds.' They are a husband and wife duo which makes it even better. Their chemistry and harmonies are raw and beautiful all at the same time. If you're a fan of bands like The Civil Wars or The Lone Bellow, you'll like these guys.

Favorite Songs:
Diamonds, Home, You and I, Take The World

My Everything | Ariana Grande

Does this album stick out like a sore thumb among my list? If so, man. I don't even care. I really, really love this album. As far as pop albums go, it's a confident, intelligent and relatable album. Aside from the hits on the radio, there are some tracks on the album with meaning to them. Plus- she has an amazing voice, much more virtuosic than any other female pop artist in 2014.

Favorite Songs:
Just A Little Bit Of Your Heart, One Last Time, Best Mistake, My Everything

Sylvan Esso | Sylvan Esso

These guys are a fun little duo. It's insane that Sylvan Esso is only comprised of two people. My friend told me to check these guys out and I wasn't disappointed! They have a fun sound and seem so chill in all of the interviews I've watched. I imagine most of these tracks being played in a coffee shop or a chill environment. A must listen from 2014.

Favorite Songs:
Coffee, Hey Mami, Play It Right

Honorable Mentions:
1989 | Taylor Swift
Hozier | Hozier
Native Dreamer Kin | Joseph
I Forget Where We Were | Ben Howard

Thanks for reading! And feel free to share your favorites from 2014.

Winter Mix / Playlist

For your dreary, cold winter days. Playlist can be found on Spotify here.

Deliver Me, O God / Reminders to Myself

Lately, my emotions and thoughts have been up and down. I'll wake up feeling completely hopeless, and by the end of the day I'll feel peaceful and contented. Or I'll start out the day filled with joy and by the end of the day, I'll be depleted of all happiness I had mere hours ago. There's no better word to describe it other than chaotic. Not the insanely crazy kind of chaotic, just always the small battle in the back of my mind and that comes to fruition when I'm by myself and can reflect.

So in these times, I pray. Sometimes even the simplest of prayers, one or two sentences to realign my thoughts. That's all I can do to calm my heart. I am being pulled every which way, having to make decisions and face changes and coming to realizations that I don't want to think about.

When I feel chaos, the Lord reminds me that He is constant. That I am so loved. That I am worth loving. That I matter and have a purpose and a calling. For I am nothing without Christ and his sacrifice. Reminders through simple text messages from friends, reading the word, or encouraging conversations throughout the day.

Audrey Assad came and put on a wonderful, worship filled concert last Monday at our school and this was also a reminder I needed. I identify with her songs; they are intricate and complex and real and beautiful. I believe she is one of the most talented songwriters I've ever had the pleasure of listening to- thank you Jesus for making such beautiful things we can relate to and see you by. 'I Shall Not Want' is the cry of my heart and to hear it live was such a wonderful experience.

"From the love of my own comfort
From the fear of having nothing
From a life of worldly passions
Deliver me, O God.

From the need to be understood
From the need to be accepted
From the fear of being lonely
Deliver me, O God.

And I shall not want, I shall not want.
When I taste Your goodness I shall not want.

From the fear of serving others
From the fear of death or trial
From the fear of humility
Deliver me, O God.

And I shall not want, I shall not want.
When I taste Your goodness, I shall not want."

I listen and praise the God who satisfies. Do you hear that truth? He satistfies. Always. Yesterday, today and forever the same. I ask Him to deliver me from these fears and I pray that you would also-

So we can have freedom.

August Chill / Playlist

My August Chill playlist is in full swing this month. What music are you listening to as summer winds down and back to school feels are surfacing? You can groove to these tunes here on Spotify. It's what all the new cool kids are listening to now-a-days.

The Cross Before Me / The World Behind Me: My 21st Year Of Life In Words

Today, I am 22.

There are so many things I want to say. So many thoughts to try and gather and convey through these words.

I can't tell you how many blog post drafts I've got in my box that I never finished or never posted since January. For some reason they never seemed quite right; I couldn't find suitable words to finish them. But I'm certain the bits and pieces that made it in to this blog post are the ones I was suppose to write and the ones you were supposed to read. I don't think I want to highlight milestones, or include pictures of me smiling and the fun things I did this year. Because I did do a lot of those things. But I'm talking here about my year as a whole, how I felt, what I learned, how I grew. The reality of my life. The stuff you actually want to hear about.

I remember thinking in May that this past semester ending hurt more than any semester I've ever experienced. I cannot sum up this past year into one word, let alone one blog post. It's almost impossible. And it wasn't really the good kind of hurt- not the, "I'm so sad to see everyone leave but it's going to be okay!" kind of hurt. More like the beginning of the end kind of hurt. The "it's time to grow up" kind of hurt. I'll elaborate more on that later. But it's a very interesting time. I believe it's the most interesting point in my life, so far at least. College is an essential time and can really mold you, if you let it. Just like the saying from The Office I know we've all heard at one point of another- "I wish there was a way to know that you're in the good old days before you've actually left them." Because there is no way to know you're in the good days while they're happening. We can't appreciate those times of growth, of joy and of laughter until they're over. Until we can reflect. Which is why I write this post today.

This past semester, and year, has encouraged me to be real with how I feel and what I think. Writing this post is good for me because I often ignore times to self-reflect and re-evaluate my life, and my worth in the Lord. The people that get to hear about my life struggles and what I'm going through are few, but I believe that's how it's made to be for me. I wouldn't have it any other way.

This year was filled with a lot of 'firsts.' Lived in my first apartment, had my first relationship, first internship, along with a ton of other things for which I am so grateful. Apartment life is really fun. Really, really fun, actually. But living off-campus doesn't automatically make you a good cook. We can all agree that I give cooking a great try though, right? ...Right. But I'm blessed by roommates who love me still. I'm thankful for late night conversations, forgotten keys, bonding moments, and watching each other all grow in our own ways. Living on my own this past year was a whole learning journey in itself and I'm still thankful to be able to experience life like that.

I also got the chance to be the graphic design intern at my church this year, and I can't even begin to explain how Freshwater has impacted my life for nothing but good. This is how I know I'm doing what I'm supposed to be doing- using my creative gifts for the glory of God and for the betterment of others- when it's something I truly enjoy. And others enjoy it too. I just have to say to God be the glory because that's really all I can say. I remember our last intern meeting for the semester, a late night at Taco Bell. Dave, our college pastor, went around the circle. Named everyone by name and pointed out every individual strength they had and doing so with undoubted certainty. I loved it because I love pointing out people's strengths. Yes- interns sat around me, but more importantly, my friends sat around me and I could say I agreed with every single thing Dave said. Having my college pastor say that I was one of the happiest people he knew in front of my closest friends and fellow interns was humbling. I don't know how I came across as joyful still, despite this season of my life and quite frankly, my unbelief this past semester. 

My unbelief. I never thought those words would graze my mind enough for me to type them out, let alone be swimming in my mind. I think you may understand me soon. Keep reading. Stay with me.

My first relationship happened to be a good portion of my 21st year of life. Is this okay to talk about? What are the boundaries on that? I don't know. But I think I'm going to talk about it. Remember earlier, me talking about how I felt? How I grew? I can't accurately lay out those things if I don't talk about what I'm going to say now.

I wanted it to work out, like we all want things to work out. My natural heartstrings of optimism and general longing for happiness in every aspect of the things I do are wired for me to see with positive eyes. I need you to know that reading a book, or even watching a movie about romance doesn't really compare to actually experiencing the joys, the hardships, the euphoria, and the heartbreak that is--or can be--the world of a relationship. If you know me, I'm really good at making things look okay. I don't hardly get stressed and I'm even keeled when problems arise. This was a very new and different problem, though. Often times I chose to mask the feelings deep down, because that's the only way I could quiet them. I soon realized that I needed to deal with what was going on in my mind and my heart because that's the only way I could get through it.

You know, I think God's favorite word is through. Because that's where he leads us.

Breakups are hard, and interesting. It drew some friends away because they didn't know what I was feeling, or what to say or how to help. Or even how to ask about it. But in turn, it drew some friends closer. They said things like, "I know where you are, I've been where you've been, and you're going to be okay." They prayed with me, and for me. They watched me cry. They also watched me heal.

If you've been through this sort of thing, you know. The roller coaster of emotions that come with it. I questioned God and was frustrated with what my life was and how I was feeling. Why couldn't this just work out? Why aren't things better? How am I supposed to deal with this?

One of my favorite Sleeping at Last songs has this little line- "I once heard honest words: though nothing may ever be the same, the heart keeps widening for change."

I think I have a lot of stuff that I want to hold on to that sometimes I won't even admit- the hope of a good future, having a husband, a job that I love, the desire to be understood, and so on. I think we all do, at the core of our being. But all these things that I want for my life- they float around in my mind, clouding my thoughts and depriving me of joy because I can't reach them. This is was unbelief.

Bonhoeffer said that when Christ calls us, he bids us come and die.  Putting aside our own desires in order to follow Him. Why is that so hard? Why can't it be easy to just surrender to God and rest in his sufficiency? "If any man would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me" (Luke 9:23.) And then there's me. My problem? I had yet to hand these desires and this selfishness over to the one who freely lends His hand to me. Even though I can't see it, whatever I think is the plan, is not the plan God has for my life. Even if I am suppose to have some of those things later, I only know this: His plan is better than anything I could ever fathom.

So I look back and I can say- It wasn't a waste. It wasn't a misstep. I can't see it that way.

I thank God for it. 

There were caverns of my heart explored that I didn't know existed. It's a different kind of pain, and the only thing I could do was bring that before God. I learned so much and have already begun to share that with others who are dealing with the same thing right now. And in the end, I have nothing but good things to say about my friend because I believe the Lord is teaching him and I both something through it. I'm still learning, no doubt about that. But I have this contentedness, like a breath of fresh air. Knowing that the Lord holds my future and though it may be hard, it's going to be okay. So I look only to the cross before me. The world behind me.

"I know now Lord, why you utter no answer. You are yourself the answer. Before your face questions die away. What other answer would suffice?" -C.S. Lewis.

The Lord is so good and I am so unworthy.
Remember what I mentioned earlier, that 'beginning of the end kind of hurt?' Those words- 'growing up'? A lot of real life hitting me in the face. But there are so many good memories to reflect on, too.

Like leading a family group of middle schoolers for a week in the summer, helping them see Jesus. TheWell winter retreat, living in community for a weekend with the best people I know. Dancing on stage with my friends for Mr. and Mrs. Southwest, all for Trinity (who is still the queen in my heart.) Being a part of a lifegroup who is willing to bear burdens, live out life and be accountable, all while having fun doing it. Going to numerous concerts- Avett Brothers, Rend Collective, Noah Gundersen, Penny & Sparrow, Local Natives (twice), Frightened Rabbit, Ben Rector, City & Colour, and the list goes on but it's already hard for me to believe I've been to that many in the past year. Getting to sing with the worship team at Freshwater this summer and hopefully for many Sundays to come. Staying up all night with Beka Todd, studying for finals at iHop, and getting to watch the incredible sunrise that morning. Along with so many good memories. Just looking back at photos and thinking about this year makes me happy. So so happy.

And, I still stand by these words I posted earlier this semester- The group of seniors that graduated were full of people who have impacted my life for the better. I've learned so much from them and I am grateful for every second I've spent with many of them. If anything else, they've impacted this little soul. I thank them for that and so much more. I felt like a small piece of me was graduating in May, because essentially, that was true. A lot of those people make up parts and pieces of who I am and how I got to be the person I am today. They made my 21st year of life--as well as the years before--so meaningful.

Now, mid summer, I'm starting to feel the way they were describing. 'Growing up is hard' they say. Well they are right. I think about how I'm graduating in December, but then I really think about how that is very scary. Often times I don't feel ready, when people constantly ask what my plan is and I have to say I don't know yet. This summer has been wonderful, though. Hanging with my best friends every night, working a job that I love, and spontaneous trips to KC and Nashville. Encouraging late night talks, and a reassuring hope that I am indeed on the right path. Friends that tell me when so many people are life taking, I am insanely life giving. That they see the Gospel being played out in how I communicate, when there were times I could hardly see that in myself. I am humbled, over and over again. Beneath the cross of Jesus Christ, no shadow remains for shame to hide. If my constant focus is the relentless and unfailing aspects of God's love, there won't be time for me to worry about trivial things. I look back and see that He was faithful. I look ahead, now, believing He is able.

I see these new freshman, coming for summer visit days and meeting their new welcome week friends. And I just smile. And know that I was once there, oblivious to the immense amount of growth, hardship, and unspeakable joy I would experience during college. I hope the Lord shows them that. I hope he wrecks them, to show them that he is indeed the ultimate healer and life-giver. I pray that he would do that. For His glory, and for their good.

Through and through, I am reassured of a simple truth- that God is real. He's very real, and he has a love for us that's like no other. I want so badly for others to experience this love. This joy. I want my life to point to Jesus because the gospel is all I have. Thank you for taking the time to read these words I have today and I hope you have something to take away from this.

I think I'm ready to take on life again. Not on my own, though.

So I say,
The cross before me. The world behind me. 

No turning back.

I leave you with this prayer, the "Valley of the Vision."

"Lord, high and holy, meek and lowly,
Thou hast brought me to the valley of vision,
where I live in the depths but see thee in the heights;
hemmed in by mountains of sin I behold thy glory.
Let me learn by paradox
that the way down is the way up,
that to be low is to be high,
that the broken heart is the healed heart,
that the contrite spirit is the rejoicing spirit,
that the repenting soul is the victorious soul,
that to have nothing is to possess all,
that to bear the cross is to wear the crown,
that to give is to receive,
that the valley is the place of vision.
Lord, in the daytime stars can be seen from deepest wells,
and the deeper the wells the brighter thy stars shine;
Let me find thy light in my darkness,
thy life in my death,
thy joy in my sorrow,
thy grace in my sin,
thy riches in my poverty
thy glory in my valley."

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"But I do not account my life of any value nor as precious to myself, if only I may finish my course and the ministry that I received from the Lord Jesus, to testify to the gospel of the grace of God." (Acts 20:24)

Summer Tunes / Playlist

Yo- Here are some tracks I've been listening to this summer. Bands I suggest you check out more of: Penny & Sparrow, Sylvan Esso and Dan Croll. If you think these songs cool and want to listen too, you can find them on Spotify here!

January Jams / Playlist

Here is a playlist of songs I've been listening to this month. Let me know what you think, I'd love to hear what you're listening to as well. You can listen to this on spotify here.

Relentless // 2013 in Words

Sometimes it takes me a long time to figure out what I want to say. So just know, this post has been a long time coming.

On this day a year ago, I was sitting across the table from Trinity at a tea room in St. Louis.
Today, I am again sitting at a table across from Trinity in Starbucks. My year has come full circle and I'd like to share with you a little part of my life.

We'll start from the beginning and just jump right in, shall we? Honest and true, remembering back a year ago, the Lord broke me down in January. This was new to me, being broken. And I'm sorry to start off on such a sad note, but it is a genuine note. I believe in the first two months of this past year, I've never felt more reliant on God.  It was a hard lesson in selfishness and loving people and not taking people for granted. It's almost hard to look back and say that was a year ago, because it seems so far away from right now and so much has changed. But always for the better. Always. In addition to learning more about myself and the Lord, in January I started a job as a part of the University Activities Council that I've grown to love and I've learned more than I can imagine. It has stretched me to become a better leader, stand up for myself, have my own opinions and get things done. It has broadened my love and appreciation for art, music and culture. I've gotten to work with artists like John Mark McMillan and All Sons & Daughters, just to name a few. This opportunity has been an absolute blessing to me and continues to be.

The next big milestone I recall was in April, when I 'made something cool everyday' and that might have been one of the best decisions I've made all year. It was a month long project in art and graphic design and the experience challenged me artistically and creatively. The positive feedback I got from friends and family was overwhelming and extremely encouraging every day of that month and even in the months after. Some of my best work came out of that project, and I am hoping to do something similar again this year.

In May, my best friend and I made a funny finals video and got over 80 likes. She wore a clown suit. People were reeling for days. (Trin, we need to do that again.) And when I think about the first part of this year, I'm reminded of really happy times. A dear friend of mine wrote a phenomenal play and got to have it performed at our school, and I'll never forget the trip to iHop we made after the last show, debriefing on the meaning of it all and how wonderful everything was. Zach McCoy's wisdom and encouragement will never cease to amaze me. He understands people and has taught me so much; for that I am grateful. I'm also reminded of so many more adventures with such great people I can't even begin to explain. All of the concerts (Nashville to see Local Natives front row? Yes.), late night McDonald's runs, sentimental conversations, all-nighters and never ending laughs are bits and pieces of who I am today. It's you, my friends, who fill my life with joy and there are no words for the amount of thanks in my heart. I won Mozarkian queen unexpectedly at the end of spring semester, surrounded by friends again and my heart was full.

May evolved into June and June to July. I saw many friends get married. I saw some not get married, and breathe a small sigh of relief when they didn't, for they had much to learn. Some friends stayed and some friends went and in turn, the summer came and went. I got to work with kids of all kinds and show them Christ's love daily, which is one of my favorite things to do. Especially since kids are way better than adults. Kids say what they want to say and don't have filters and are really real with you, whether you want to hear it or not. And that's why I love them so much. I went to Disneyworld and the beach for my 21st birthday in July and when they say it's the happiest place on earth, they aren't joking. They gave me and my friend birthday pins to wear around and literally everyone tells you happy birthday. Even if they were required to, it was an extremely happy day. All I know is, that day was the most joyful day I've experienced in a while.

I remember feeling so weird about coming back to school in August. I was extremely stoked for new adventures, and the Lord certainly threw me for a new season of my life. Even now August seems so long ago. So many new friends and experiences. I got an apartment with some of my favorite people and that's been a huge blessing. You can see in the post before this (here) about what I was doing and learning in September, I encourage you to read that. I think the best way to describe this past semester is to say it was a roller coaster. Cliche, I know, and I'm sorry, but that's all I've got. A roller coaster in the best way possible though. I was taught to pause and enjoy moments as they happened. And the Lord was with my every step of the way, even though most times I told myself I couldn't feel it. The Sunday when I felt like I couldn't see any silver lining, and the Lord spoke words of encouragement through someone who I would least expect him to. That night that I spent reading old blog posts, listening to the rain at 2am and thanking God for his provision over my life. The Friday where Trinity and I sat and cried in a coffee shop with because we both had no idea what in the world was going on in our lives. The afternoon I spent at Barnes & Noble, listening to a dad and 5 year old daughter have a conversation about how much they loved each other. And all of the other things, which I shall not mention here, that have brought me at one time or another, grief and joy and sadness and contentment--

He was there.
And He gave me some wonderful people in my life who I've gotten the privilege of growing closer to and doing life with. Beka Todd, my heart, my other half, and now a dear friend of mine who I can call a kindred spirit. Jessica Palen, who is the epitome of wonderful, encouraging and has been there for me since the beginning. Tessa Hull, who is the sweetest soul and will forever be a friend of mine. The "Freshmen", you know who you are, who bring joy to my life day in and day out. My IFC Committee, for without them I could do nothing. The Becker family, who I one day hope to model my own family after. Numerous others; if you were a part of my year at all, know I am extremely thankful for you. And lastly but certainly not least, Davis Finley, who encourages me, has seen me at my worst and best, and likes me for who I am.

People say that their past year was "the best year ever." Well this time, I truly mean it. I'm immensely thankful for this year. Especially the sad times, for without them, the happy times would have no value. As I mentioned in one of my recent instagram posts, in this part of life, I am slowly learning. Learning patience, and understanding, and selflessness, and Christ-likeness. I'm thankful for a relentless God who's love remains and always will. But in regards to this past year, I don't really want to use the word 'learned,' I feel it's a bit cliche. Everybody has their lists of what they've learned the past year. That's wonderful, but I want to hear about what you experienced. What broke you? What mended you together? What's still mending you together? What did you encounter? I think I'd like to use the word "encountered." The ultimate thing I encountered this year is that the Lord is profoundly relentless. Most of the things I'd say that I "learned" about life, and love and belonging, I already knew. I just encountered them in a new way.

A constant reminder to me this year was Psalm 73:26. "My heart and flesh may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever." I had this set as a reminder on my phone everyday. And let us not forget Lamentations 3:24, "the Lord is my portion, therefore I will hope in Him."

Friends, this year was hard. This year was easy. This year was full of change. This year was beautiful. Thank you for reading. I appreciate you, reader, and thank you for doing life with me.

Adventures as of Late

The photos above were taken by my friend Trinity on one of our Saturday adventures, that of which I will be writing about soon. She recently wrote a post on all of the fun things we've been doing and you should check out her blog when you get the chance.

Friends--I know, I know. It's been a long time since I last wrote. Seasonal blog posts, I'm telling you. Apparently I'm all about that life. As I mentioned in one of my older posts, there are so many snippets of memories and stories in my head that I cherish, and in times like this, I wish I had written them down. I'm the kind of person who strives to enjoy moments as they are happening and truly appreciate them in the present, and keep those memories to share when they should be shared. My life has been a roller coaster lately, to use the most cliche metaphor. But here are some bits + pieces of my life that I thought I'd share with you.

My poor little car has been broken for the past two weeks and that's been a burden and a blessing
concurrently. I drive a green mini cooper, and I swear that thing is literally the vehicle version of me. Thankfully, my red schwinn Ruby is faithful through and through every morning at 8am. But honestly, not having a vehicle makes you realize the things you take for granted and the things you're missing out on. We had our first 70 degree day here a couple days ago and if I would have driven my car to and from class that day, I most likely would have just talked about how nice it was outside. But I actually get to feel it every morning and truly appreciate my favorite days of the year.

Lately, I've been abounding with inspiration from my surroundings. The other afternoon I was sitting at my desk, tucked away in the secluded, seldom-visited corner of campus where I work. Everyday I get to come in and fulfill design requests that I essentially have free reign over, listen to great music, and be with pleasant people all while working at my own pace. And as I was sitting there on that Wednesday, I was overcome with immense joy. A knowing, contented, fulfilling joy that I can't honestly explain in words. This feeling confirmed that I was, and am, indeed in the right place and doing what I was created to do for the glory of the Lord. I've been getting so much positive feedback from others about my work, I'm not sure what to do with it all. I just smile politely and say a simple thank you, that person probably never knowing how much a small compliment means to an overly sentimental person like me. I truly believe that you should do what makes you happy. That statement is said all of the time and may be overused, but it's extremely true. And maybe you haven't found what that is for you yet, or maybe you have. But you'll know you have when even the smallest task you do brings you joy and you feel like you're making a difference, even if it's in the tiniest way. Maybe it's that child you are spending quality time with, or that business plan you've crafted for the betterment of an organization, or that speech you've written to inform or inspire. God uses people in numerous way that we can't even fathom.

It's not all perfect though; to be honest, this past week has been somewhat difficult for me. Yet, I have found hope in each day. I've been reading the "Jesus Calling" devotional and every single reading has been directly applicable to my daily circumstances. My friends continue to amaze me as they speak truth into my life without fail. God's grace is boundless--my only hope is to emulate that in my daily life and through the encounters I have with people. It's as simple as that.

I have so many more stories to share, and I hope to write about them sooner than later. Thanks for reading, I appreciate that you took the time out of your day to hear about what God is doing in my life and maybe you can be inspired to do whatever it is that brings you joy.

"The Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace." Numbers 6:25-26.
(From the September 15th reading of Jesus Calling.)

Room Tour

This week I thought I'd share with you all some bits and pieces of some things that make up the decor in my room. Most of the things in my room either come from antique stores or were belongings of my grandmother, which I truly cherish and am so lucky to have such special family heirlooms in my possession now. I think it's so wonderful how decorations back then have come back in style and can be used in many ways today. I hope you enjoy these photos and are inspired by different ways to decorate your own space!

 

Isn't that old piano sheet sweet? I hope you all have a blessed week and are inspired by something you love!

-Ashley

Sweet Saturdays

This past Saturday was so wonderful, I had to tell you all about it. I got up early to hop the local farmer's markets in search for this week's goodies, and I think my favorite part was seeing all kinds of friends I knew shopping as well. It makes me happy to see all these people supporting local businesses. Later that day I went to The System to get my hair cut and colored by my friend Amy. She did a wonderful job and I ended up getting an ombre that starts at a darker brown and fades to carmel. Man, do I love it. The rest of the day was truly a sweet saturday- I met up with my dear friend Tessa who has become one of my closest friends as of recent. You can check out her instagram here! She is so wonderful to be around, she is insanely encouraging, and we always have something to talk about. We had a great dinner at a local Italian place named Bambinos and ordered some wonderful items off of their summer menu. They do not disappoint! And then we headed over to the Pickwick area an explored a bit. We stopped at a sweet Homegrown Foods store that reminded me of my morning.

We then stopped at a local sweet shop, Elle's Patisserie. Tessa is great friends with the owners and we chatted with the workers for a while. But most importantly, we enjoyed their Lavender Iced Coffee, which is to die for! Elle's is truly a delightful little spot and I'd encourage anyone who'd like a sweet treat and a friendly face to stop by there.

We then ventured over to the park with our blankets, watercolors, and iced coffee in hand for some painting, which was so much fun! Phelps Grove park is a quaint little spot with families running around everywhere. I'd like to go there more often.

The last photo is the beginning of my creation. I hope you all found your Saturday to be sweet!

-Ashley